5. Never ending conflicts
When your home—meant to be a haven of peace—becomes more stressful than the toughest day at work, it’s a clear sign something’s wrong. Imagine going to bed angry every night, with constant battles and bitter words. No one envisions this as part of a healthy marriage.
As Dr. Howard Markman, a professor of psychology from University of Denver wisely notes, “How you handle conflict is the single most important predictor of whether your marriage will survive.” In a strong marriage, your spouse is your partner, your safe harbor in life’s storms, and your biggest supporter when you’re feeling low.
But in a high-conflict marriage, your spouse can feel as emotionally draining as a toxic boss. Without intervention through counseling or therapy, this downward spiral often leads to only one destination: divorce.